it’s all about you

You’re built for relationships. And at the same time, you can’t save the people you love. You can’t make them feel better. You can’t control them. You can’t change them—no matter how hard you try or how much you want to.  And that’s terrifying.  Because what...

how to be happy

Guys, I figured out the key to happiness. Turns out it’s all about giving your power away to things like brand new furniture (and then hoping the joy lasts longer than the 12 minutes it took them to unload the stuff). Just kidding (though how great does this yellow...

arguing for your limitations

What arguing for your limitations looks like: Closing yourself off from possibility because you know you don’t have the money, the time, or the energy Refusing to find a creative solution (refusing to see the magic of life) Totally believing your external...